Writer: Paula

One – Find God

Before we love others, we should love God first . As the saying says: The best way to find love is to find God.

Two – Be the best you can be

Before looking for a mate, Christian singles should learn how to love themselves and realize that before loving others, they have to love themselves and should try to become the person they want to meet . It doesn’t work if you are looking for that perfect someone, when you are not a perfect person. Singles should try to become the best they can so they can “attract” the right person they are looking for.

Three – Don’t be afraid to Socialize

Single Christians shouldn’t keep themselves from socializing, by sitting around waiting for God to deliver their mate. Hang out with good people, be a positive person (who wants to be around a person who is always sad and complaining about their singleness? Not me!). If you like someone, invite them to spend time together, or participate in singles events. This is a great time to meet other singles, as “everyone is in the mood to meet others!”. At the very least, being part of a good online Christian dating site can make you new friends.

Four – Self Confidence

Develop your self-confidence, look at yourself as a person who is in “control” of your life, and know what you want. Being self-confident makes people want to be with you.

Five – The “ONE”

Don’t rush; rather, pray and wait. God will deliver the right person, if it is the right time for you. It is worth waiting for God because the “one” He may give you will be the best one for you. And, you’ll realize why it never worked out before: God was saving the best one for last 😉

Six – Grow Spiritually

Take your time to grow spiritually. Being ready for Mr. or Mrs. Right requires that you also fill your heart with God. Being in a relationship doesn’t necessarily mean the feelings of loneliness are going to go away, because you can also feel lonely with the wrong person, especially if you don’t have God with you.

Seven – Be Happy!

Even if this is not your ideal situation in life right now, the bottom line is this: BE HAPPY! True happiness doesn’t come from others; it comes from being in the right relationship with God. He has wonderful plans for us. He is never late, as His timing is perfect. So, wait on Him, and Him Shalom WSA FAMILY

Leah Grace Oketcho, is a highly talented Communication specialist, gifted in leadership with over 3 years of leadership and management experience at different levels. She is a team player and has demonstrated ability in mobilizing and organizing others to achieve desired goals. Oketcho is well vast in the art of creating alternatives for ways to get results. She has over the years grown in the art of corporate communications and also participated in the development of performance management materials for various professional institutions. Leah received training in research, scripting, international relations, and data analysis as well as public relations. She is passionate about solving public health related problems. She has offered training to youth in oral and written communication, people management and mentoring, editing and documentation skills, public speaking.


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